Healthy relationships are about building each other up, not putting each other down. Just because you’re in a relationship, doesn’t mean you have to share everything and constantly be together. Creating boundaries is a good way to keep your relationship healthy and secure.
By setting boundaries together, you can both have a deeper understanding of the type of relationship that you and your partner want.
Sure, no one really likes a breakup, but it can oftentimes be the best thing for you as you transition to a completely new part of your life. Now, ask yourself: Are those things going to be affected if you stay with your current high school SO?
Meeting new people and becoming a more independent version of yourself?
You may need a boost if you feel disconnected from your partner or like the relationship has gotten stale.
If so, find a fun, simple activity you both enjoy, like going on a walk, and talk about the reasons why you want to be in the relationship.
“First dates are often stressful and awkward—leaving both parties wondering how it really went,” said Jessica Holland, director of the UNM Women’s Resource Center (WRC). If your intuition says something is a red flag, trust that it is.” Recently, the WRC asked people which red flags they wished they had paid attention to when it came to first date behaviors.
If you’re not sure what path you and your partner should take post-high school graduation, ask yourself which aspects of college you’re most looking forward to (besides academics, of course! “I broke up with my high school boyfriend because I realized we weren’t serious enough to make it long-distance,” says *Joanne, a junior at Notre Dame.
But what if you start feeling like you want something more?
And it’s one that many soon-to-be collegiettes in relationships have to start asking themselves as high school days quickly start dwindling. That’s when you and your SO may find yourselves heading off to colleges in different directions. After spending part or all of high school together, you may feel like no one could ever understand you more than the person who was always there for you.
Communication is a key part to building a healthy relationship.
The first step is making sure you both want and expect the same things—being on the same page is very important.